great quotes...

"When we choose not to focus on what's missing from our lives but are grateful for the abundance that's present...we experience heaven on earth."

"Love the people who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don't."

"We LIVE, We DIE and the WHEELS on the BUS go round and round."

"I Do My Thing and You Do Your Thing. I Am Not In This World To Live Up To Your Expectations, And You Are Not Here TO Live Up To Mine. You Are You, And I Am I, And If By Chance We Find Each Other, It's BEAUTIFUL."

Ultimately, LOVE isn't something you say. It's something you have to do and the BEST KIND takes years. -KIRBY

Grant me PATIENCE to deal with my BLESSINGS!!

Love is the many small moments that make up a lifetime of happiness...

Life is about making mistakes, Death is about wishing you had made more!

I was made to find you, I was made just for you, made to adore you, I was made to love and be loved by you . You were here before me, You were waiting on me and you said you'd keep me. Never would you leave me. I was made to love and be loved by you!

Never miss out on the PRESIOUS PRESENT MOMENTS!

Mean what you say, say what you mean, mean what you say & drop it!

Love is that which is unlimited. There is no beginning and no end to it. No before and no after. Love always was, always is, and always will be!


1.09.2009

to all you MOMS out there....HELP!!

ok so this is a cry out for help to anyone that peeks or is
invited to our blog....PLEASE HELP....this is the
story....my 2 and 4 year old won't go to sleep without
me right by there side and they won't stay in there beds
all night....waking me up at least 4 to 5 times a night....
I NEED MY SLEEP....i go to bed angry and i wake up
angry....my kids and husband are taking the brunt
of my madness and I NEED MY SLEEP....do any of
you have any suggestions??
even if you are blog hopping.......... if you have anybody that
has gone through this and you have something that
might work PLEASE i'm begging you leave a comment
and let me know something that might HELP....
thanks..... ME the MOTHER

11 loves...:

allgirls said...

i think that you need to go on a REALLY long vacation by yourself and let jer take care of it... but benny said i can't go! good luck.

the 2 of us... said...

Jeremy got rid of the binkie maybe he can get them to sleep all night without you or send them to grandma and grandpas house haha loves

kim said...

I tell my kids if they want to sleep in my room they have to sleep on the floor or in the recliner and they are not to make a sound. As for sleeping in their room, I'm not sure about that one. I was never a nice enough mom to do that.

TravisandTaryn Barrett said...

It is so funny that you posted about this cuz my kids are having a really hard time sleeping right now too. My little girl did the same thing and when she was almost 3 I just read her books turned music on and told her she had to sleep like a big girl and went out. It took a lot of putting her back in her bed for awhile but it worked. Now she goes to bed by herself for the most part. Now I'm trying to get my kids to go to bed earlier. Good luck

AC and Lola said...

I am obviously not a mom, but have you thought about separating them? Maybe they're waking each other up. You might put Ash in the living room on the air matress for a week or so and put Chuck and Breckyn in separate rooms. That might at least give you a better idea if only one of them has a problem. Then you might be able to focus more on one child at least. If anything, sick J-Lo on them. Nothing puts the fear of God in you like a determined dad! HAHA! Good luck, Lou! I love you and can't wait to see you next weekend!

Krista said...

watch every episode of super nanny there is, I'm sure there was some parent on them that's had that same problem. I think you'll have to just plan on giving up a couple of nights of sleep to break them of this habit- it's hard to be stern when you are dead tired!! Do it on a holiday weekend :)

Jen and Her 3 Boys said...
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Jen and Her 3 Boys said...

Hey girlie. I have been pretty lucky with Brandon when it comes to the sleep thing, but I do know that he will go as far as we will let him. You need to just be firm with them. I like what Adrienne said maybe you should seperate them and see who is the trouble maker. Good luck! Give me a call when you are up we can chat, since I will be up too. Love ya!

Molly said...

um... im 20 years old. and i still sleep on my parents floor. along with my 11 and 9 year old brother. we are extreme fraidy cats.
i hope you have better luck then my mom and dad have had.... the brightside of this for ME is that I never have to imagine or think about or wonder when my parents do "IT." cause they have zero opportunities.

natjwalker said...

Oh Stacy! I have so been there Connor did the same thing he would never sleep in his own bed. I was finally able to break him after several sleepless nights putting him back to bed. I had a talk with him about sleeping in his own bed and all the things because he is a "big" boy he got to do and if he kept coming to my bed he wouldn't get to do those things. I also took him to the store and let him pick out his own night light which helped a ton. He also adopted a blanket that my Grandma made me back years ago and the only way he could keep his "blue" blanket was to sleep in his own bed. This worked for a long time, but he has had the occasional fall back and ended up in my room. Usually after something has happend that made him be scared. It is usually something like a TV show, something another kid at school told him and so on. Anyhow I have lot's of other tricks and tips I got when I was going thru it so if you need some more ideas call me!

Love you! Sending you my strength and un-tired energy!

-Nat

Bigga & Bugg said...

Well knowing that I'm not a mother yet. I am an Auntie to 22. I agree to the night light. When I was younger I wouldn't sleep in my own bed either. I would be scared of the dark when my mom and dad told to sleep in room with sisters. They bought us a night light so I could see when I woke up. After that I always slept in my bed. The idea about the Wii and Breckyn is a good one. :)
Good luck to you and hope you get your sleep back.
Love ya tons...US!! :)